Writing an intention that is not a wish

The difference between "I hope this happens" and "this is what I am doing" is smaller than it sounds, and it is entirely in the wording.

Craft1 min readBy Manifestin

Wishes and intentions look similar on the page. Both start with wanting something. The difference is what happens next.

Wishes point outward

A wish hands control to something else — luck, timing, other people, a version of yourself that will somehow be more disciplined later.

I hope work gets easier this year.

There is nothing to disagree with here, and nothing to do. You can read that sentence every morning for a year without it ever changing what you do that day.

Intentions point at you

An intention names the part you control. It is usually smaller and less impressive than the wish it replaces, and that is the point.

I want to stop answering messages before 10am.

Now there is a decision embedded in the sentence. You can keep it or break it, and both of those are visible.

Three questions to test a line

  • Whose move is it? If the answer is not you, rewrite it.
  • Could you break it today? If not, it is too abstract to matter.
  • Is it the size of an action or the size of a life? Keep the life-sized version as context, but write the action.

Keep the big one, act on the small one

None of this means the large ambition is wrong. The distance you want to travel is worth stating. It just cannot be the thing you check yourself against every morning.

Write the destination once, at the top. Then write the sentence you are actually going to live with today underneath it. The first gives you direction; the second is what makes the day count.